Why This Matters

Our Founder

Photo of Lauren Armstrong author of Safe Love Feels Like This and Founder of The Self Love Safe Love Collective

Lauren Armstrong is a Sydney based educator, mother of three and the heart behind The Self Love, Safe Love Collective. With a career spanning over 15 years in school leadership, as a secondary English teacher and former Dean of School, Lauren brings deep expertise and insight into the emotional needs of young people.

Her passion for this work is also deeply personal. Having experienced domestic violence in both childhood and adulthood, Lauren knows firsthand the lifelong impact of what we are taught to accept when we are young. She believes that if children are taught self love early, they will mature with an internal compass strong enough to guide them toward safe, respectful relationships and away from harm.

Lauren’s work blends gentle storytelling with powerful emotional literacy tools to help children, caregivers and educators create a momentum of change around self worth and safe relationships across generations. 

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Our Mission

Our mission is to engage a generation of young people who understand their inherent worth, emotional safety and healthy relationships.

With evidence-based, preventative driven resources for children, adolescents, parents, educators and community organisations we empower young people through emotional safety and protective behaviours education, building self worth, setting boundaries and forming healthy relationships with themselves and others.

For the adults guiding them, we hope this message resonates too, so that the value of preventative actions, self worth, safe love and respect is carried forward through every generation.

“The more a child feels worthy within, the less they’ll settle for unhealthy relationships with others. That’s the quiet power of teaching self love early.”

Lauren Armstrong